Well stated. While I have a question. Your view has been a special frame around the notion of what life can become when you lose yourself. And keep on moving...Until you find the other. And they, the other...spouse in marriage ,replace the one who never loved you honestly when all things mattered. And there the your fate is created. Sad. Sorted. Devil's delight. But worse of all you have abandoned you, and your genuine self. So here is my question. How does the person who abandoned themselves ever, ever find courage to do what is right? For is not courage a learned virtue? One this person refused to create and nurture when it truly mattered?