Your thesis is illuminating. Thank you for the sliver of light.

The light goes dim though when you default to something akin to society owing you...as in a repayment of a debt or interest on a long term loan. Or worse, as matters of society and its subset cultures do as you despise.

In other words, where does one come from when one is born or raised or brought into the light of day [ or your vision as perspectives meld with the shifting winds] thinking he or she is owed something from another including how they feel about themselves?

First stop, begins with the other. Always the other and the responsibility by default never lies at the sight or label or category of the individual.

Think about what you are saying. Do you really wish to continue propagation of what has always been while you state vehemently that you wish not to.

Somewhere in the midst of your good intentions, the story turns on itself not as a paradox but more akin to nature unleashed when all those that preceded you did as you are now doing. ..arguing with grand thesis leading the way , what is good for the moment based on society and the subset culture that you are aligned with.

Second, attempt to think about what you are thinking. Critically so and maybe...just maybe, as nature will have it, your good intentions might make a difference where you least expect it. Someplace beyond a stone's toss of where your immediate self interest lies.

Eric